A collage featuring a woman facing the eclipsed moon with a snake wrapped around her.

Reading Time: 6 minutes Often the one person you’re stuck with for life (you), is also the most mistreated and neglected (by you). Let’s dive right in, shall we? I’ll begin by explaining what I mean by self-abuse. Abuse, as per Google, is defined as treating someone “with cruelty or violence, regularly or repeatedly.” Self-abuse is thus the act […]

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Waiting to die

June 11, 2021

Reading Time: 3 minutes Waiting for a family member to die or waiting to die, seems far too much to go through. And it is. The just waiting. The waiting. There are things, tools that can be used and done that can bring softening to the souls,all still very much so, living, even if waiting. Storytelling is good. Comforting […]

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Reading Time: 10 minutes As one who serves as a vessel for healing energy to pass through her and a very isolated though in the city Shaman, the fridge dweller nature of observation, observation nature just has to come out. Am unusual but though I can not see clearly in the physical I do see a lot in other […]

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Artwork with a concerned looking man with wings.

Reading Time: 2 minutes Good judgment comes from experience and a lot of that comes from bad judgment. (Will Rogers) Please make a thorough note of this: self-judgment is not a high-performance tool. When it comes to cultivating self-compassion, it is important that we do hone our internal dialogue. We have to center around cultivating the sense of compassion, […]

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Reading Time: 4 minutes “Let me first say that I get how triggered some people may feel reading this. Please hear me out. I speak from experience…from a personal, vulnerable place that I am choosing to share with you, because I believe it can help. From addicts to the people who love them, my heart is with everyone touched […]

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A painted portrait of a wary, purple-faced woman.

Reading Time: 4 minutes “Four Strategies for Recognizing Your Beauty When You Feel Ugly” first appeared in Your Tango on May 27th, 2020. The raw reality of the meaning of “appearance” can be profound. Closer to the surface, feeling ugly comes from thoughts and emotions, and has little bearing on the reality of how beautiful a person really is. […]

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An abstract painting of with horizontal panels of varying colors and shading.

Reading Time: 3 minutes I had an interesting discussion with a woman who came to play the transformational board game I invented called the Game of Clarity over the weekend. We start the game by formulating questions, regarding which each player wants clarity and direction. This woman had two different directions to choose from and after talking for a […]

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Reading Time: 3 minutes With the continued uncertainty in the news right now, it is important to remember that only YOU can prevent your mind from spiralling out of control. It is easy to be drawn into negativity and start panicking about what the future might look like for you, but this will only send you down to rabbit […]

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